Living at university
Some students may choose to move into student accommodation while at university and for many this will be your first time living away from home. It is a big transition for all students, getting used to a new living environment and learning to look after yourself with shopping, cooking and cleaning. This learning curve can be particularly steep for someone who is blind, partially sighted or deafblind.
For new flatmates, you may not know how to help or be aware of the little things you can do that make a big difference for keeping the accommodation and shared spaces safe and accessible. Here are some top tips that you can follow to support your blind, partially sighted or deafblind flatmate:
- Introduce yourself! When meeting someone or when entering a room they are in, it can be really helpful for you to let your flatmate know that you are there and who you are. A light touch on their forearm can also help them know you are talking to them.
- Try and use specific language when describing things or providing information. Use phrases like “it’s on the coffee table” or “it’s about an arm’s length to your left” rather than “here” or “over there”. When describing things include textural characteristics and shape. When providing directions refer to key landmarks, direction of travel and distances.
- Don’t move someone else’s belongings. You may think it would be helpful or just being tidy, but it is vital items such as cleaning products and personal belongings stay where they were placed, so they can easily be located and identified.
- Keep shared spaces and pathways obstruction free and avoid moving items such as furniture without discussing and agreeing first. They can easily become trip hazards or may remove cues your flatmate uses to navigate the room. Ask what else can help in the shared parts of the living space, such as keeping washing up in a designated area out of the sink to avoid accidents with knives or glasses.
- Going somewhere? Ask if they would like to come with you. Whether it is to the local supermarket, the student union bar or a uni event, it can be really helpful to travel with someone – especially in those first few weeks.
- Often information about social opportunities, events and important route closures or room changes, is communicated via posters which can be really inaccessible. If you see a new notice or ad, ask if your flatmate or classmate is aware of the information and if they would like you to read it for them.
- Be confident and start the conversation. You may be worried about saying or doing the wrong thing or asking a sensitive question, but it is much worse to ignore or exclude your flatmate. Though it is important to stay respectful, it is nice to be open to learning about how their condition affects them day to day, the things that can be more difficult and the little things you can do to help. And don’t forget to talk about fun things too, such as their interests and passions. Be a friend, not just practical support.
- If you are in a new situation together, check in to see how this might change things. They might be very confident cooking and eating independently at home, but eating out may be a different story. They might appreciate a description of where the different food items are on their plate or the layout of the restaurant for example.
- Respect their wishes. If they say they can manage the task themselves, trust them and allow them the space to do so. There is such thing as being over-helpful, and this can do more harm than good. This is why it is important to ask first, and keep communicating rather than make assumptions.
…and here’s a couple of top tips for blind, partially sighted or deafblind students settling in to new accommodation:
- It can be daunting to introduce your condition to new people, but it can really help both them and you if you help them understand. Have a think in advance about the information that would be helpful for them to know and that you are comfortable sharing. Having a prepared plan in your mind is always helpful for overcoming any nervousness! This also applies to making conversation about things other than your vision impairment or deafblindness.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for help – people won’t know what to do, or the way to help that is right for you, unless you let them know. Explain what assistance you do and don’t like, and a little about why so they can better understand your perspective. It is important you both feel comfortable in any situation that a flatmate might be supporting you with.
- Suggest ways you can help your flatmates too. Is there a shared task you could take ownership of, or something you could do for them regularly? This can be really empowering, and help you feel more settled and connected with your flatmates.
- If your flatmates can’t help with something, don’t give up! Contact your accommodation provider, university or student union – there may be student volunteers that can lend a hand. Also, look for local organisations, such as the local Sight Loss Council, that could provide support or advice. And if you are still not sure where to turn, you can always reach out to us – email firstname.lastname@example.org or call our support line 0203 757 8040
Managing Sight Loss
Check out the Managing Sight Loss series of resources from London Vision, for more hints and tips on a whole host of tasks, activities and situations.
Technology and tools
Want to find out more about the gadgets, appliances or apps that might help in and around the home? Go to VitalTech’s website for information and guidance of what is currently on the market.
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